题目:‘‘And Yet It Was a Blessing’’: The Case for Existential Maturity
作者:Linda L. Emanuel
年份:2017 年
标签:死亡;
摘要
死亡相关幸福感:existential maturity;概念及其心理动力学相关工作模型。
a state that is triggered by facing mortality, one’s own or others’, or from the culture or a combination.
任何年龄,包括儿童,都有可能出现。
a type of steady state or dynamic integration of key aspects of a person’s being and of personal interactions—dyadic, in family groupings, and in community.
death is a central part of this balance.
That reality can be unspeakably painful, but it is also integrated with the rest of life and the greater world.
Existential maturity seems to start with confronting and figuring out how to think and feel about death.
It is often a ‘‘wordless state’’ in which people can feel deeply, terrifyingly alone.
One part entails taking in the experience by having feelings and thoughts about it.
The other part entails connecting this to an experience of relatedness; the sensation stays one of falling aloneness until someone (and/or perhaps some dialogic relatedness of an inner nature) can together create and hold some kind of understanding.
Oscillating / A holding presence / Finding expression
“Regressing” to find capacity to adapt / Creating the internal structures / Doing the work / When the process does not complete
Resolving death anxiety, the death drive, fear of disintegration / Love and spiritual comfort / Psychological structures of existential maturity and existing theoretical constructs of the mind